The twin flame journey can be extremely exasperating and frustrating for many twins out there who simply want things to fall into place. Often a time, each individual journey has its own ups and downs and you can become so frustrated wondering what you are doing wrong and where it is all falling apart.

Seeing as your twin flame, at the soul level, is the mirror version of you – it is impossible to stop being twin flames with someone. However, when you keep doing your work, it isn’t always necessary that you settle with your twin in this lifetime, irrespective of how special the person is for you.

Twin flame relationships burn very brightly and flames consume a lot of oxygen to keep burning.

There are so many triggers that will go back and forth between the both of you, because you are meant to purge as many layers as you can, independently before you move back into union with your counterpart.

It is tempting to want to desire not to want to be someone’s twin – especially if the dynamic has caused you so much heartache already. Many people, although well meaning – end up in karmic dynamics.

Karmic dynamics are abusive and I thought I had actually met my twin when I was much younger—only to figure out it was a karmic connection and the man was severely abusive towards me. He taught me many things about what Love IS, and what it is NOT, so when I actually came across my genuine twin flame, I knew it was him.

Although the journey feels impossibly difficult, each thing that your twin triggers inside you, helps you get closer to your goal and destination.

You meet your twin to discover all the unhealed places inside you that require healing, especially within your emotional pain body. Keep focused on yourself and not on your twin, because that way you know your life keeps pressing forward and you become the elevated version of yourself.

Many people think that the twin flame journey is to find this “happily ever after,” and although that is very much part of the story right at the end; the ability to grow as a person through this connection is similar to placing braces on your teeth.

It stretches you a tonne and you will feel the pain of growth.

When you come to accept that the connection with your twin flame, cannot be bent, broken, or changed – you will take it in stride and keep doing the work on yourself inside, to allow the situations in your life to come into your favour.

Just like you cannot alter the way you look radically, the same thing goes with your twin flame. You came to the world with them and you both share the same soul frequency.