This twin flame journey, is not simple and certainly not easy. As we have begun this New Year, and most importantly a new decade; we are firmly in the Age of Aquarius. As an Aquarian myself, one of the key things I find with your twin flame, is the ability to reflect and look within. Many people are simply looking to complete on the outside, however there are 3 major things that I would guide and advise you to be cautious of, when it comes to your twin.

The first one, is placing all the happiness in the hands of your twin. Yes, I completely understand what it feels like to have days where all you want to do is spend it with them and they are your whole world. That is normal and natural when you share the same soul frequency with the person. However, one of the biggest things that we can end up in, is a co-dependent relationship where you feel like without you, your twin will not be able to function.

Remember, your twin’s job, is to dig up everything that hurts within you, in order to heal and become the true radiant person you are.

When I met my twin, I knew it was him by his energy signature and did a tonne of clearing in my heart area using Heart Wall Clearings. Over time, so many emotions can be trapped, that it is like water travelling through a pipe. If the pipe is not clean, it can become negative and distorted.

The second one, is not holding your twin responsible for this dynamic not working out. One of the biggest challenges I have come to find when I have done private twin flame mentoring (email here if interested to discover more), is having the tendency to say “If only he or she did this and that, everything would be just fine). In actual fact, that would not be the case.

Why?

Because your twin and yourself are in RESONANCE. Meaning it’s like if one catches the cold, the other sneezes. What I mean by this, is that everything that annoys you in your twin, is a good and strong learning curve for you to heal and grow within your power.

Keep using the person’s behaviour to ask yourself what else needs clearing within your energy fields. I used very powerful aura cleanses to help me keep my vibration high and shiny, so I would attract the best things towards me.

The final thing is, not excusing toxic or dysfunctional sub-standard behaviour in your twin as “that is just how they are”. Twin flame or not, it is not healthy to excuse toxic behaviour in anyone. Your twin should never have toxic behaviour towards you, no matter what.

If you’re finding that the person is putting you through mind games and emotional manipulation that is not love. That is abuse and you will need to discover and learn the courage to get away from that.

Twin flame love is honourable. Whilst it has its challenges for you to be able to learn, it will never make you feel miserable or hurt you inside.

I went through plenty of abusive relationships to be able to meet my twin and I knew he was the correct man, because he always spoke to me with respect and kindness, despite whatever was happening in his life.

I was able to get into alignment increasingly with the clearings that removed all the walls from my heart and I found peace and happiness that allowed me to love him at a powerful level.